Do you have a Valentine this year, love?

Do you have a Valentine?  If not, does it make you sad to see happy couples celebrating this holiday every year, seemingly rubbing it in your face while you wonder “WHY NOT ME??”  I totally 1000% understand what that’s like because I’ve been there, too (many-a-time).  If this is you, read on…

{!firstname_fix}, you may not know this about me but years ago I used to literally HIDE every Valentine’s Day.  That’s right, HIDE.  I hated being reminded of the relationship that I didn’t have everywhere I went so I stayed in my apartment and avoided social media and the TV like the PLAGUE as I drowned my sorrows in chocolate, cheese, and wine while listening to Wilson Phillips (does this sound familiar?)  It was so painful I even took off from work that day to avoid feeling even more shame around not having the relationship that I thought I should have, and didn’t.

Over the last several years my perspective on V-Day has been MUCH different #lovecoach #ilovelove.  I’m a love coach so that shouldn’t be too surprising BUT, as you can see there was a time before I was a love coach, before I was even skilled in love…when I literally wanted to crawl into a hole this time of year (and kinda did in a way).  But now I literally can’t wait for V-Day when this time of year rolls around.  It’s a great day filled with love, peace, fun (with myself, friends, or a date), and amazing self-love and self-care overall.

So that change in perspective is pretty drastic, right?  If you’re wondering HOW I got from being miserable and lonely and total pity-party about V-Day to OWNING the specialness of the holiday (date or no date)…  It’s pretty simple.  I got SUPPORT.

I stopped listening to my single friends’ advice, stopped searching so much outside me to find love because the true love that would light the flame that has attracted soo many amazing men since that time, was inside me all along…  I just had to nurture it and take it from wimpy flame to wildfire (my ability to attract men is a little bit out of control, lol – not a problem I mind having! ;-))

So I see you, beautiful single, deserving, special, loving woman.  And I want you to have the best V-Day EVER (single/date/no date – what have you).

I love that our “Manifest Your Man Monday” segment happens to fall right before V-Day.  Woo hoo!  So how could I resist gifting you something to be an even better man manifester AND have a great V-Day as well?!

All you have to do is click here for a link to my PDF “V-Day Survival Guide,” which is a checklist of things you can do and/or allow yourself to receive on V-Day this year (and all year, you manifesting QUEEN!)  This PDF includes some secrets that I don’t share with folks outside my circle of friends and email list (love you <3).

And that’s not all, love…

I am gifting a free hour of coaching time to the person who tags me the most in their instagram feed (@katietiti) with the hashtag #ilovevday from now through the 15th.  Aww <3 <3 <3

Have a GREAT V-Day (I know you will) and remember to keep me posted on Instagram!!

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XO,